- Is someone other than
this parent really interested in
custody?
- This parents agenda
seems to change constantly.
- Are others using this
custody case as vendetta of rivals for a
parent's attention.
- Is this about power,
money or something other than the
welfare of the child?
- Why is this person
hostile and on attack of the legal
process and the other parent?
Often an attorney will have your husband,
wife, father, mother or significant other
stay out of the limelight as much as
possible if they give the appearance of
power or passion.
Accept the healthy help offered by the
people who care about you. But do not hand
over responsibility for or control of your
case to anyone.
In this war of endurance and attrition,
you need to and should accept appropriate
support and assistance from the people who
care about you and your children.
Appropriate support includes a calm,
reassuring listener, finder of knowledge,
and information to partial or full financial
support.
Inappropriate help includes fanatics
anxious to make personal sacrifice or doing
questionable activities to meet your goals.
Make sure your case does not look driven or
controlled by someone else. It is advisable
to help your husband, wife, father, mother
or significant other be and appear as a
support person rather than a leader. If this
person finishes your sentences for you, does
more talking than you do, and makes promises
or decisions for you, you have this problem.
Win Your Child Custody War
(Child Custody Help SourceBook)
Perfect Bound: 753 pages

Configuration: Triple Columned Format
Publisher: Pale Horse Publishing; 12th Edition
Edition:
January 31, 2008
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1587471043
ISBN-13: 978-1587471049
Product Dimensions: 10 x 8 inches
Shipping Weight: 2.8 pounds
Price including Shipping & Handling:
$137.60
Killers & Boosters
Attitude Adjustment for Child Custody Litigants
Perfect Bound: 216 pages

Configuration: Single Columned Format
Publisher: Pale Horse Publishing
Edition: 2007
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1587470160
ISBN-13: 978-1587470165
Product Dimensions: 8 x 5 inches
Shipping Weight: 10 ounces
Price including Shipping & Handling:
$19.95
Description:
1,896 entries, this indispensable book provides those embroiled in a
child custody case a chance to reflect. Every entry is a tidbit of advice, information,
moral support or scrap of wisdom meant to inform and inspire. It's the type of book that
can be read straight through or picked up and put down when the need arises. This is your
attorney, therapist and spiritual counselor encapsulated into one amazing book.
Dear Judge,
Kids' Letters to the Judge
Perfect Bound: 154 pages
Configuration: Single Columned Numbered
Entries Format
Publisher: Pale Horse Publishing
Edition: 2007
Language: English
ISBN-10: 158747008X
ISBN-13: 978-1587470080
Product Dimensions:
8
x 5 inches
Shipping Weight: 10 ounces
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$19.95
Description:
110 letters that expose the real concerns directly from
children's hearts to judges' desks. This touching book brings to
light the thoughts and emotions of those most affected by child
custody battles. With poignancy and innocence, this collection
of letters proves once and for all that children see, hear and
feel more than most parents give them credit for. Every divorced
parent should read this book.
Witnesses'
Guide
For Deposition or Court
Perfect Bound: 352 pages

Configuration: Double Columned Format
Publisher: Pale Horse Publishing
Edition: 2007
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1587470667
ISBN-13: 978-1587470660
Product Dimensions: 8.5 x 5.5 inches
Shipping Weight: 1 pound
Price including Shipping & Handling:
$24.95
Description:
Dan Poynter author of The Expect Witness
Handbook Going to testify at deposition or at trail can be
frightening. A few people rise to the challenge but most shrink
from it. The court and players are intentionally intimidating.
It is their game and you are an observer rather than a player.
It has been said that people can be divided into three groups:
those who make things happen, those who watch things happen and
those who wonder, what happened? The adversary system of justice
is a team sport made up of three sets of participants: Those who
make things happen: the judge and the opposing attorneys. Those
who watch things happen: the bailiff, stenographer, clerk of the
court, jury, gallery, and witness. Those who wonder what
happened : the plaintiff and defendant who are paying for it
all: who must live with the outcome. You may be in group two or
three. This easy-to-read guide will take you by the hand,
step-by-step, through the mysterious judicial process. The
reading is interesting, entertaining and fun. You will learn so
much about the judicial system that your deposition or court
appearance will be anticlimactic. You will have a sense of deja
vu (been there before). This is because this book tells you all
of the challenges you might run into and you will not have to
face them all. Lawyers and judges go to school to learn the
judicial game. You have this book. Good reading, good learning
and good luck.
Child Custody Case Management Forms
Perfect Bound:
498 pages

Configuration: Full Page Format
Publisher:
Pale Horse Publishing
Edition:
2007
Language:
English
ISBN-10:
1587471043
ISBN-13:
978-1587471049
Product Dimensions:
10 x 8 inches
Shipping Weight:
2.8 pounds
Price including Shipping & Handling:
$47.55
Description:
The 240+ forms and worksheets in this voluminous book will help
you to better organize and analyze your child custody case. It
will also give you the ability to document and track the
progression of your case while saving you countless dollars.
Organizing your files, receipts and conversations will not only
give you a better overview of your case, it will also help your
attorney immensely. A great complimentary book to Win Your Child
Custody War.
How To Go To Visitation Without
Throwing-Up
Perfect Bound: 100 pages

Configuration: Full Page Format
Publisher:
Pale Horse Publishing
Edition:
2003
Language:
English
ISBN-10:
1587470411
ISBN-13:
978-1587471049
Product Dimensions:
8 x 5 inches
Shipping Weight:
10 ounces
Price including Shipping & Handling:
$19.95
Description:
Is a book for young children about coping with regular
visitation to separate parents, especially long-distance
visitation. Written in very simple language arising from the
point of view of a young boy who had a hard time adjusting to
the stress of traveling back and forth to visit his mother. This
book offers more than just a mere advisory text - it has
point-by-point observations, travel safety tips, and numerous
fun activities to pass the travel time. How To Go To Visitation
Without Throwing Up is highly recommended reading and a great
resource for any parent having to take a child on a long
distance trip to visit friends and relations. The Midwest Book
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